You have a commitment in front of you. Maybe two. The rate is there, the fees are there, the term and the conditions are there, and it is still hard to tell which offer is better or what exactly you are agreeing to.
That is normal. Private mortgage paperwork is dense, the timelines are short, and most people signing one have never read a commitment before. A second pair of eyes is worth more on this kind of mortgage than on almost any other.
Start with the rate, though, and you will get it wrong. The rate tells you what this year costs. It tells you nothing about whether you will still be in a private mortgage three years from now, paying a fee at every renewal because nobody planned the way out.
I have spent 12 years in mortgages, including specialist roles at RBC, TD and BMO. Most private files that reach me in Oakville arrive the same way. The bank said no, a deadline is close, and someone offered a fast yes.
A fast yes is easy to find. A broker who has already worked out how you get back to a normal lender is not.
So here are nine questions to ask before you sign anything. Ask me the same ones. If you want the mechanics first, what a private mortgage is and what it costs, that is on the private mortgage broker in Oakville page. This post is about choosing the person.
TL;DR
- Compare the total cost in dollars, not the rate, because fees flip which offer is cheaper.
- Get the exit plan in writing, with dates on it.
- Ask what happens at maturity if the lender says no, before you sign rather than after.

1. Are You Licensed for Private Mortgages?
Start here. It takes 30 seconds and it rules people out.
Ontario changed mortgage licensing on April 1, 2023. A Mortgage Agent Level 1 can only arrange mortgages through banks, credit unions and other approved institutions. To deal with private lenders at all, an agent needs a Level 2 licence, which means passing the FSRA-approved Private Mortgages Course and holding a Level 1 licence for at least a year first.
✓ A good answer is a number you can check while you are still on the call. Type it into the FSRA public registry. Mine is M19002764, Mortgage Agent Level 2, Mortgage Architects, brokerage 12728.
✗ A bad answer is a website that says “mortgage specialist” with no licence number anywhere, or an agent who tells you their broker will sign off on the private part. If they hold a Level 1 licence, your file is going to somebody you have never spoken to.
2. Who Is Actually Lending Me the Money?
Private money comes from three places. One investor. A group of investors. Or a mortgage investment corporation, which is a company that pools investor money and lends it out.
The rate can look identical in all three cases. What differs is what happens at the end of your term.
This is worth knowing. Delinquency at mortgage investment entities reached 1.96% in the third quarter of 2025, close to triple the pandemic low, according to CMHC’s Residential Mortgage Industry Report. Chartered banks sat at 0.24% in the same quarter. CMHC points to heavier exposure to Toronto as part of the reason, and Ontario now accounts for roughly half the portfolios held by the 25 largest of these lenders.
A lender watching its own arrears climb gets careful about renewals. If yours decides not to renew you, your exit stops being your choice.
✓ A good answer explains which type they are placing you with and why, and names the lender once the commitment comes back, along with whether that lender has funded and renewed files like yours in Oakville in the past year.
✗ A bad answer is still vague once a commitment exists. Early on, a broker often will not know which lender takes the file, and that is normal. By the time paper is in front of you, the name, the type and their renewal record should all be clear.
3. What Is My Total Cost in Dollars?
Not the rate. The dollars.
Here are two offers on a $250,000 private first mortgage, both 12 months, both interest only.
| Offer A | Offer B | |
| Interest rate | 7.49% | 8.99% |
| Monthly payment | $1,560 | $1,873 |
| Interest over 12 months | $18,725 | $22,475 |
| Lender fee | $7,500 (3%) | $2,500 (1%) |
| Broker fee | $5,000 (2%) | $2,500 (1%) |
| Appraisal and legal | $1,950 | $1,950 |
| Total for the year | $33,175 | $29,425 |
Offer A has the lower rate and costs $3,750 more.
So the rate is the wrong number to compare on. Any broker can run this math in a few minutes, which means you can ask for it in dollars on every offer you are shown.
✓ A good answer puts the cost of borrowing in dollars and the APR in writing. In Ontario you are entitled to that written disclosure at least two business days before you enter the mortgage agreement or pay anything (O. Reg. 191/08, s. 7). You can sign that waiting period away in writing, and a broker in a hurry may ask you to.
✗ A bad answer quotes percentages and promises to sort out the fees later. One more thing to watch: if the principal is $400,000 or less, a brokerage cannot require or accept an upfront payment or deposit at all (O. Reg. 188/08, s. 37). If someone asks, walk.
4. What Is My Exit Plan?
This is the question that decides how your next three years go.
FSRA’s 2024 consumer survey found that 60% of borrowers who worked with a broker on a mortgage from a non-traditional lender had discussed an exit strategy, published in its Private Residential Mortgage Lending in Ontario Report. The other 40% are the people who renew, then renew again, then start to wonder how they got here.
✓ A good answer is written down and has dates in it. It names your target credit score and the specific items pulling it down. It names the loan-to-value you need to reach and what has to change to get there. It lists the income documents a B lender or bank will want and when they will exist, which for self-employed borrowers usually means two years of Notices of Assessment. It sets check-ins at 30, 60, 90 and 180 days, and it says who is watching the calendar.
✗ A bad answer is “we’ll look at it closer to renewal.” That is how a 12-month bridge quietly becomes a three-year arrangement.
5. What if the Lender Will Not Renew?
Maturity is where private mortgages go wrong. If the lender says no and there is no plan, you are left with a rushed refinance, a sale on somebody else’s timeline, or a power of sale.
✓ A good answer names a fallback lender, sets a date to start that conversation at least 90 days before maturity, and gives you an honest read on how likely renewal is with this particular lender.
✗ A bad answer is “they always renew.” Nobody can commit a future lender to a future decision.
6. What Are the Renewal and Discharge Fees?
Short terms look cheaper. They also repeat.
A 2% lender fee on $250,000 is $5,000. Renew three times over 18 months and you have paid $15,000 in fees on top of your interest, and your balance has not dropped by a dollar, because private mortgages are interest only. Your loan-to-value improves only if your property goes up in value.
✓ A good answer shows you the renewal fee written into the commitment instead of left to the lender’s discretion, tells you the discharge cost, says whether the mortgage is open or closed and from what date, and prices both a 6-month and a 12-month term so you can compare.
✗ A bad answer covers the rate now and the fees later. Fees discussed later are fees you find out about at the lawyer’s office.
7. Which Lenders Fund This Property Type in Oakville?
Private lenders do not treat every Oakville property the same way. If a home would be slower to sell, they usually still say yes, just for less money than you expected.
Their protection is being able to sell it, so anything that slows a sale gets a lower cap. Acreage north of Dundas, the oversized lots in Old Oakville and Bronte, the mixed-use buildings around Kerr Village and condos all sit below what a subdivision home would get.
✓ A good answer names lenders, funded in the past year, on your kind of property, with the loan-to-value they actually approved. On a $1.5M Oakville home carrying a $600,000 first mortgage, a cap of 65% to 80% puts roughly $375,000 to $600,000 in play before fees. Expect the lower end. Across the 25 largest private lending entities in Canada, the average loan-to-value on single-family lending sat at 58% in the third quarter of 2025.
✗ A bad answer is a maximum loan-to-value quoted before anyone has looked at your property.
8. What Could I Do Instead?
Plenty of people who get declined by a bank do not need private money at all.
This comes up constantly in Oakville, because so many homeowners here are still carrying a first mortgage from 2020 or 2021 at under 2%. Refinancing means breaking that mortgage and losing the cheapest debt you will ever have. A second mortgage leaves it alone. You pay the higher rate only on the new money you need, not on your whole balance.
✓ A good answer shows you the comparison. A refinance, a B lender, a HELOC, a private second, a private first, with the total cost of each and the reason one wins.
✗ A bad answer reaches straight for the full refinance without pricing the second. A refinance is the larger transaction, so ask why it wins on total cost rather than on convenience.
Not sure which one fits you? That is worth a phone call before you sign anything. Bring your current balance, your rate, your renewal date and what you need the money for, and I will price the options side by side. Call (289) 208-4469.
9. What if I Still Do Not Qualify?
Some files do not have an exit inside 24 months. You deserve to know that before the first renewal fee, not after the third.
✓ A good answer says it plainly, in writing, and describes what happens instead. Sometimes that is selling on your schedule rather than the lender’s.
✗ A bad answer is optimism with no numbers under it.
Signs to Walk Away From
Any one of these is enough:
- Only one lender presented, with no comparison against a refinance, a B lender or a HELOC
- Pressure to sign the same day, or a request to waive the disclosure period without independent legal advice
- Any upfront fee on a mortgage of $400,000 or less
- A guarantee that a bank will take you at the end of the term
- No question about why the bank declined you, when that reason decides your exit
- A licence number you cannot find in the FSRA registry
Your Nine Questions, in One Place
| Ask | ✓ Good sign | ✗ Red flag |
| 1. Are you licensed for private mortgages? | A Level 2 licence number you can check yourself | No number anywhere on the site |
| 2. Who is actually lending me the money? | The lender type, and the name once a commitment exists | Still vague after the paper arrives |
| 3. What is my total cost in dollars? | Dollars and APR in writing, two days before signing | Percentages now, fees later |
| 4. What is my exit plan? | Written down, with dates and target numbers | “We’ll look at it closer to renewal” |
| 5. What if the lender will not renew? | A fallback lender and a date 90 days out | “They always renew” |
| 6. What are the renewal and discharge fees? | Written into the commitment, not left open | Discussed after you have signed |
| 7. Which lenders fund this property type in Oakville? | Lenders and loan amounts they actually approved | A cap quoted before seeing the property |
| 8. What could I do instead? | Every option priced side by side | Straight to the refinance |
| 9. What if I still do not qualify? | Said plainly, in writing, before you sign | Optimism with no numbers under it |
A good broker will not flinch at any of them.
Book a Private Mortgage Audit
If you already have a private mortgage, or someone has handed you a commitment and something about it feels off, this is a free 30-minute review.
You walk away with:
- Your total cost in dollars, for the term you are in or the one you have been offered
- A read on whether the rate and fees are competitive for your equity position
- A straight answer on whether an exit in the next 12 to 24 months is realistic
Call me (289) 208-4469, or start your application if you would rather I look at the whole file first.